Deciding where to go on vacation creates a bit of stress for
all of us. There are a number of factors to consider. The most
important is the destination, followed by how we get there,
where we are going to stay, and what we are going to see.
Another factor is the budget. If you are single, some vacations
can cost more because a lot of room rates are based on double
occupancy. If you are traveling with small children, you have
to cover all their expenses and maybe some daycare if you and
your spouse want some "alone" time.
Most popular vacation destinations will have many
attractions. So many, in fact, that you can not possibly see
them all in one trip. You also have to be aware of the limits
of your family members.
If your vacation is 7 days or 10 days, you should plan your
itinerary accordingly. You have a day of travel before and
after the vacation. When you arrive at your destination, the
kids may be tired and cranky and though it is afternoon, they
will probably need to rest. After delays in an airport and time
spent in the air, you may also want an afternoon nap.
Including your children in the planning of your vacation
itinerary increases the experience for them. They may not want
to go to an art museum but they will be more receptive if they
have picked out attractions they enjoy and you will have to
see.
Plan your itinerary so there are activities for both adults
and children during the day. This will help to keep them from getting cranky
from following you to all the things you want to see.
Traveling long distances is not easy for any of us. Here are
some things to keep in mind for yourself and when you travel
with children.
Acknowledge the interests your child may have and not
subject them only to attractions you want to see.
Plan your day with extra time between attractions so
you have time to get to the next one, time for bathroom
breaks, food breaks, and any other unexpected thing that
may pop up.
Be aware of your children getting overtired. You should
plan rest times between activities.
You may want to plan in afternoon naps for younger
children or you may want to stop at a library or bookstore
to read. The young ones may nap in your lap while you
read.
If you plan your day so that your activities are in the
same general area, you will spend less time getting to each
attraction or looking for a place to park.
Do not plan all the food stops beforehand. Just as you
included your child in what attractions you will see, you
let them have at least one choice of where to eat each day
or on given days during the trip.
In large cities, there are always attractions that interest
both children and adults. If you like art, many museums have
areas where children can create art. Many science museums have
hands-on activities and the most interesting visual creations
that can occupy a small child.
The purpose of a vacation is for the family to enjoy being
together. You can not please everyone all the time but you can
try to make the trip easier on everyone.